4 Gateways Training

4 Gateways Coaches provide their clients with a powerful and dynamic process for addressing an enormous variety of issues, dilemmas, and problems in their client’s lives.

Introductory Training

  • Part 1: Foundational Skills

    (for both individuals desiring tools for their own personal development and professionals wanting tools for their practice.)

Coaching Certification

  • Part 2: Anchoring the 4 Gateways

  • Part 3: Integration & Applications

Specialty Trainings

  • For Health & Wellness Professionals

  • For Leaders, Directors, Managers, and Mediators

  • For Mental Health Professionals (Therapists, Social Workers, Counselors)

  • For Clergy, Spiritual Directors, & Educators of all kinds.

Benefits for you as a coach:

  • Your clients find their own uniquely satisfying solutions.

  • The process is easy to learn.

  • You bring out the best in your clients.

  • Deepens as your client evolves.

  • Integrates well with other healing modalities.

What others are saying about the course…

The 4 Gateways model provides me with a map I can use for any issue and any client. The model offers access to powerful unconscious blocks that drive thinking and behavior. It’s essential to my practice.

- Brian Gast, Executive Coach, Quadrant International

The 4 Gateways is stunning in its ability to create real change at the deepest levels with a huge variety of issues. Every time I use this process my clients are awakened to a new way of accessing their inner wisdom.

- Rhonda Hess, Business Coach, Prosperous Coach, Inc.

The 4 Gateways Coaching process teaches your client to:

  1. Define an issue and potential outcome

  2. Invite new perspectives

  3. Assess the risks to change

  4. Honor feelings and deep connections

  5. Find meaning and purpose

  6. Create satisfying resolutions and realistic action steps

Your clients will determine how to bring new possibilities into the inner world, into relationships, and into the world.

•Life Skills Coaching

  • Get the support you need at any level

  • Successfully navigate transitions

  • Relieve stress

  • Be more creative

  • Unravel chronic patterns

  • Attract abundance in your life

  • Face and resolve fears

  • Embrace and leverage your strengths

  • Cultivate your unique genius

•Relationship Coaching

  • Build authentic relationships

  • Skillfully work with conflict at home and at work (and within!)

  • Set appropriate boundaries

  • Relationship and parenting issues

  • Access compassion for yourself and others

•Business & Leadership Success Coaching

  • Become a more powerful leader (as a manager, director, teacher, mediator, and parent)

  • Build powerful teams

•Spiritual Growth Coaching

  • Clarify your spiritual direction

  • Find meaning and purpose in any issue

  • Developing emotional intelligence

  • Be more present

  • Increase your happiness and joy

•Health and Wellness Coaching

  • Create meaningful and doable goals and programs

  • Align body, head, heart, spirit

4 Gateways: Foundational Skills Training

Step One of the 4 Gateways Training Program

Are you an individual looking for tools to support your personal growth?

Are you a professional looking to enhance your ability to support others?

Then this Training is for you …..

Activate your Mind for – Clearest Thinking & Creative Perspectives

Fire up your Doer for – Courage & Right Action

Access your Feelings for – Engaged Compassion & Deep Connections

Evoke your Deep Knowing for – Alignment with Purpose & Generative Leadership

Short on time? Here are the 30 second basics…

Training Curriculum: 6 Classes

  • This course will feature 6 x 2-hour online classes.

  • The classes will happen live so that you can interact and engage with course instructors and other men.

  • All classes will be recorded and available to watch on replay for 1 year.

  • The 4 Gateways: Foundational Skill Training Handbook, included with tuition, will be utilized between classes to enhance your learning,

  • Paired practice coaching sessions between sessions will also offer hands on peer learning between each class (5 total practice sessions)

Course Instructors

Jake is a licensed social worker and life coach for men, couples, and groups. Many years ago, he found his passion for counseling in wilderness therapy programs in Colorado and Utah. Jake has worked with children, youth, adults, and families in outdoor education programs, public and alternative schools, substance abuse facilities, and outpatient counseling centers. His most recent work with high-conflict relationships has further informed his direct, yet respectful coaching in conflict resolution, relationship dynamics, and accessing inner wisdoms beyond ego states.

Jake specializes in empowering men of all ages to redefine purpose in their lives and rediscover passion in their relationships. He is passionate about helping boys and men discover and live their truest self in all areas of their lives. Jake lives in Golden, Colorado with his wife Natasha and daughter Claire.

Course Founder

For over 40 years Tom has been a group and seminar leader, health educator, leadership trainer, counselor, life coach and coach trainer.  Tom is a founder of the Living Arts Foundation and the Men’s Leadership Alliance. Both organizations are dedicated to supporting personal soul work, encouraging sustainable communities, and fostering a deep reverence for all life.

Tom currently teaches leadership and coaching skills in a variety of formats including: individual coaching and mentoring, the Men’s Leadership Alliance – Art of Leadership Training Program, the Inner King Training for men and the 4 Gateways Coaching Training Program. He is the author of The FatherWorkBookWildmen at the Border, and the 4 Gateways Coaching Guidebook, among other publications. Tom is a father, grandfather, stepfather & father-in-law. He lives in Gunbarrel, Colorado with his wife Jude.