4 Gateways Training

4 Gateways Coaches provide their clients with a powerful and dynamic process for addressing an enormous variety of issues, dilemmas, and problems in their client’s lives.

Introductory Training

  • Part 1: Foundational Skills

    (for both individuals desiring tools for their own personal development and professionals wanting tools for their practice.)

Coaching Certification

  • Part 2: Anchoring the 4 Gateways

  • Part 3: Integration & Applications

Specialty Trainings

  • For Health & Wellness Professionals

  • For Leaders, Directors, Managers, and Mediators

  • For Mental Health Professionals (Therapists, Social Workers, Counselors)

  • For Clergy, Spiritual Directors, & Educators of all kinds.

Benefits for you as a coach:

  • Your clients find their own uniquely satisfying solutions.

  • The process is easy to learn.

  • You bring out the best in your clients.

  • Deepens as your client evolves.

  • Integrates well with other healing modalities.

What others are saying about the course…

The 4 Gateways model provides me with a map I can use for any issue and any client. The model offers access to powerful unconscious blocks that drive thinking and behavior. It’s essential to my practice.

- Brian Gast, Executive Coach, Quadrant International

The 4 Gateways is stunning in its ability to create real change at the deepest levels with a huge variety of issues. Every time I use this process my clients are awakened to a new way of accessing their inner wisdom.

- Rhonda Hess, Business Coach, Prosperous Coach, Inc.

The 4 Gateways Coaching process teaches your client to:

  1. Define an issue and potential outcome

  2. Invite new perspectives

  3. Assess the risks to change

  4. Honor feelings and deep connections

  5. Find meaning and purpose

  6. Create satisfying resolutions and realistic action steps

Your clients will determine how to bring new possibilities into the inner world, into relationships, and into the world.

•Life Skills Coaching

  • Get the support you need at any level

  • Successfully navigate transitions

  • Relieve stress

  • Be more creative

  • Unravel chronic patterns

  • Attract abundance in your life

  • Face and resolve fears

  • Embrace and leverage your strengths

  • Cultivate your unique genius

•Relationship Coaching

  • Build authentic relationships

  • Skillfully work with conflict at home and at work (and within!)

  • Set appropriate boundaries

  • Relationship and parenting issues

  • Access compassion for yourself and others

•Business & Leadership Success Coaching

  • Become a more powerful leader (as a manager, director, teacher, mediator, and parent)

  • Build powerful teams

•Spiritual Growth Coaching

  • Clarify your spiritual direction

  • Find meaning and purpose in any issue

  • Developing emotional intelligence

  • Be more present

  • Increase your happiness and joy

•Health and Wellness Coaching

  • Create meaningful and doable goals and programs

  • Align body, head, heart, spirit

4 Gateways: Foundational Skills Training

Step One of the 4 Gateways Training Program

Are you an individual looking for tools to support your personal growth?

Are you a professional looking to enhance your ability to support others?

Then this Training is for you …..

Activate your Mind for – Clearest Thinking & Creative Perspectives

Fire up your Doer for – Courage & Right Action

Access your Feelings for – Engaged Compassion & Deep Connections

Evoke your Deep Knowing for – Alignment with Purpose & Generative Leadership

Short on time? Here are the 30 second basics…

  • A 6-part live experiential online course to address any personal issue in your own life and develop clarity and action in moving towards resolution.  4 Gateways is an innovative, holistic model that encompasses multiple modalities and techniques for looking at your life from a variety of viewpoints. The 4 Gateways is a powerful, experiential process to address an enormous variety of issues in anyone’s life. The model views both inner and outer life as a source of learning and discovery.

    The 4 Gateways process creates new possibilities in the moment and provides opportunities to try them out. In the end, you guide yourself and others to bring new awareness into their inner life, their relationships, their careers, and their world.

  • Any time when two or more people sign up for the course

  • Online

  • This course is for anyone (all genders welcome) who wants to learn powerful and effective tools that will impact your life, your approach to current life challenges, and your relationships with others. This course will be taught by certified 4 Gateways coaches and trainers.

  • By joining this course and learning the Basic 4 Gateways Process, you will learn how to actively transform old patterns by tapping into inner wisdom at the levels of thinking (magician), feeling (lover), doing (warrior), and being (sovereign), You will also:

    * Refine your listening skills.

    * Understand the beliefs and assumptions underlying the process.

    * Co-coach with fellow participants with supervised feedback.

    * Guide others to access the creative opportunities in any issue.

    * Quickly and skillfully work with resistance and conflict.

    * Access joy and compassion by working deeply within yourself and with others.

    *Create effective self-care and support systems for yourself and anyone you work with.

  • COURSE FEE: $895

    
Includes a free copy of The 4 Gateways: Foundational Skills Training Handbook, by Tom Daly, PhD, and a free 30-minute individual coaching session, with a certified 4 Gateways coach.

Training Curriculum: 6 Classes

  • This course will feature 6 x 2-hour online classes.

  • The classes will happen live so that you can interact and engage with course instructors and other men.

  • All classes will be recorded and available to watch on replay for 1 year.

  • The 4 Gateways: Foundational Skill Training Handbook, included with tuition, will be utilized between classes to enhance your learning,

  • Paired practice coaching sessions between sessions will also offer hands on peer learning between each class (5 total practice sessions)

  • The course begins with an introduction to the 4 Gateways Process and its foundational beliefs and how it can be applied in your everyday life. You will share about your call to being here; speak about who you are, your strengths and what gifts you bring; and name your desired outcomes for this course.

    During this class we will discuss the overview of the course which will include:

    • Benefits of coaching using this model for yourself & your classmates.

    • Learning the fundamental beliefs and assumptions underlying the process.

    • Becoming familiar with the 4 wisdom perspectives.

    • Learning the basic 4 Gateways model to use with yourself & other coaches.

    • Applying the model in practice for issues of personal self-care.

    • Establishing personal goals for the course and making best use of our time.

  • We will begin this class by discussing the 4 Gateways model in more depth, its history and development as a coaching tool, and its foundational beliefs and assumptions. Understanding the philosophy of this coaching model will help you understand more fully how to coach yourself and others moving forward. The foundational beliefs and assumptions will inform all areas of this course and its coaching methods.

    During this class you will experience the 4 Gateways process modeled in its entirety and discussed at length in order to understand how it works and how to use it effectively.  

    Together we will answer how the 4 Gateways utilizes effective coaching through:

    • How to prepare yourself as a coach and prepare the client for coaching?

    • What is needed to help a client clarify an issue and an outcome to be addressed?

    • How to address the issue from the 4 Gateways and listen to a client intently?

    • What integration and closing is necessary for clients to leave the session empowered?

  • Once you have understood the foundational beliefs and assumptions and experienced the process in its entirety, we will then address how to create a safe container for coaching to occur successfully. We will discuss how effective coaching integrates trust and safety between the coach and the client as well as respect for the process and the work to take place. You will experience a coaching session with a demonstration client model for teaching and then work in pairs to integrate the learning at this stage of the process.

    During this class, we will focus on:

    • Opening and closing coaching sessions.

    • Preparing ourselves to coach and be coached.

    • The importance of confidentiality and safety in coaching.

    • Clarifying an issue and outcome.

    • Addressing the issue from the 4 Gateways.

    • Integrating the learning from the process.

  • During this class you will review the coaching foundations and continue to deepen into the model as coaches and clients. There will be a discussion of the important things to remember when working with clients, how to track the issue and the outcome throughout a session, and how to guide effectively as a coach. This class will include more of the demonstration of the method and more time to discuss challenges experienced integrating this new model.

    • You will have the opportunity with your classmates to:

    • Experience the model in more depth.

    • Ask questions to clarify how to address challenges.

    • Work with each other to coach and be coached on issues of self-care.

    • Discuss any issues as they arise in the coaching relationship.

  • This class will focus on self-care and our personal relationships with how we meet our own needs and ask for support. There will be a demonstration of a full coaching process using the 4 Gateways method with more depth and clarity around how to integrate and close a session with a client. Integration of this tool and how it can be applied is the main objective of this model. Giving ourselves and our clients the opportunity to integrate their awarenesses into their lives is the most powerful part of this tool.

    Together we will further experience and discuss:

    • How does self-care and coaching support effective change?

    • What underlying beliefs are most resonant with you during the process?

    • When does integration occur for you and your client effectively and powerfully?

    • How often does self-care and self-relationship come up in coaching sessions?

  • In this final class you will have the opportunity to review all the coaching basics of the model, ask any remaining questions about how to work the process for yourself and other coaches, and share the insights and takeaways from the course with the cohort. We will then discuss the next steps of how to integrate this coaching tool into your everyday life.

    Together we will explore questions such as:

    • How do I incorporate this coaching model into issues in my life moving forward?

    • What do want to address in my life using this powerful tool for transformation?

    • How can I continue to address challenges in my life through the 4 Gateways?

    • What steps can I take to continue this path of deep listening and coaching in my life?

    • How do I continue my own learning and development utilizing this model?

Course Instructors

Jake is a licensed social worker and life coach for men, couples, and groups. Many years ago, he found his passion for counseling in wilderness therapy programs in Colorado and Utah. Jake has worked with children, youth, adults, and families in outdoor education programs, public and alternative schools, substance abuse facilities, and outpatient counseling centers. His most recent work with high-conflict relationships has further informed his direct, yet respectful coaching in conflict resolution, relationship dynamics, and accessing inner wisdoms beyond ego states.

Jake specializes in empowering men of all ages to redefine purpose in their lives and rediscover passion in their relationships. He is passionate about helping boys and men discover and live their truest self in all areas of their lives. Jake lives in Golden, Colorado with his wife Natasha and daughter Claire.

Course Founder

For over 40 years Tom has been a group and seminar leader, health educator, leadership trainer, counselor, life coach and coach trainer.  Tom is a founder of the Living Arts Foundation and the Men’s Leadership Alliance. Both organizations are dedicated to supporting personal soul work, encouraging sustainable communities, and fostering a deep reverence for all life.

Tom currently teaches leadership and coaching skills in a variety of formats including: individual coaching and mentoring, the Men’s Leadership Alliance – Art of Leadership Training Program, the Inner King Training for men and the 4 Gateways Coaching Training Program. He is the author of The FatherWorkBookWildmen at the Border, and the 4 Gateways Coaching Guidebook, among other publications. Tom is a father, grandfather, stepfather & father-in-law. He lives in Gunbarrel, Colorado with his wife Jude.